Yes, but they might not know until you get the order.
You or your solicitor can start the application for a FMPO without telling your family. This is called a ‘without notice’ application. If the without notice FMPO is made this means that you will have protection before your family knows you have made the application.
The application must be sent to them by a process server (a person whose job is to give documents to people) or the court bailiffs.
The family court will then set a hearing at which your perpetrators will have the opportunity to defend the order, or they can agree to let the order continue. This might mean that you have to give evidence at court with your perpetrators there.
You will usually have to attend court. In certain situations, you can give evidence from another location, so that you do not have to face your perpetrators at court. If you do not wish to or do not feel you can attend court, you should ask your solicitor to request that you can give evidence from a different location. If this is not possible, you or your solicitor should ask for special facilities to be put in place to protect you at court and giving evidence. If you or your solicitor call the court in advance and ask for special measures.